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James Simpson (R01-11) to Diana Miguel-Lava on Saturday 7th September 2024 in Cascais, Portugal, their son Isaac was born in September 2023.

The following OFs were present Charles Simpson (K65-72) Henry Simpson (K74-84) Lucy Simpson (P01-11) Will Simpson (G03-18) Dan O’Leary (R00-09) Connor O’Leary (R02-11) Ed Barker (S06-11) Paul Boatman (S06-11) Will (R10-11) and Olivia (nee Castle M06-11) Pitcher.

We have been advised that Ian died of sepsis with associated pneumonia after a short illness, on Wednesday 13th August 2025 at QA Hospital Southampton.   No other details known.

Nick Carlton was a Captain with Princess cruises.  His obituary was spotted in the Daily Telegraph on 11 August 2025 stating the following :  CARLTON – Nicholas Charles, Captain Nick Carlton, died on 11th July 2025 in Mandurah, Western Australia, aged 72.  He leaves a son James.

His funeral was at 2:00pm on Thursday 31 July 2025 at Bowra & O’Dea Mandurah Chapel, 460 Pinjarra Road, Greenfields, Western Australia.

He features in Distinguished for saving a life “In 33 years at sea Captain Nick Carlton has never heard the cry “man overboard”, until August 2003.  At the time he was Captain of the P&O liner Pacific Sky.  When the shout was made he immediately turned the ship around and headed back to search.  After nearly 3 hours of searching in 25 knot winds and rough seas, the man was remarkably found and brought back on board.”

His daughter Alison has advised us that Mike died on 1st July 2025 at the age of 87. His funeral was on 25th July 2025 at 12,30pm at Hemel Hempstead Crematorium.  The following is her eulogy :

He was born on 21^st August 1937 in Northwood, Middlesex as an only child.  He attended Framlingham College from January 1951 – July 1955 where he met 2 life long friends, Roger Gibbard (R51-55) & John Hanney (R50-55), so almost 75 years of friendship.

He did National service for 2 years where he was stationed in Cyprus among other places, which he loved.

He had various jobs throughout his life starting off in the post room and working his way up the ladder to Managing Director in a number of different companies.  He also ran a successful catering business with his wife Jenny so many weekends were taken up with weddings, funerals and parties.  They also ran Little Hay Golf Club for a couple of years.

Mum & dad met in 1959 at Ostend and then married on 17 March 1962.  We were very fortunate to have such loving kind and caring parents who worked hard all their lives to provide a wonderful home filled with very happy memories.  If only we could turn the clock back.

After mum passed away dad was bereft and lonely but then one of dad’s old work colleagues got in touch and they later went on to marry in July 2009.  Dad finally had some happiness back in his life and embraced Sandra’s children, Roger & Kerry, and the grandchildren, as Sandra embraced Alison, Sarah & Rachel.

Dad was the life and soul of the party, he did love a party! Always living life to the full and enjoyed having time with Ian and Phil over a pint of beer and talking about cars! We used to travel miles, on weekends away, just so dad could try a beer, from his ‘Good Beer Guide’ that he hadn’t tried before, he made notes on every beer he tasted and marked them out of 5.  Dad also loved a bbq, he even had his own chefs hat, however as soon as Ian or Phil arrived the cooking duties were passed to them, which probably wasn’t a bad thing!

Dad loved family get togethers of any kind, Christmas, birthdays, easter, any excuse for a drink and good food.  He used to enjoy his games of Monopoly with Rachel, which would go on for a few hours, Rachel usually won!

Dad was also very involved in charity clubs and was a much loved member of Round Table, 41 Club, Rotary and Probus, all of which he served with dedication and commitment.

Unfortunately dad had a very difficult last 10 years, battling various illnesses & difficulties especially in the last year.  It was sad and unfair to see our lovely dad, who embraced life so much, suffer and decline so drastically.  Dad was always thoughtful and wise and had a gorgeous smile that lit up the room.  Everyone who knew dad loved him and many of you have referred to dad as ‘a lovely old school gentleman’

We would like to thank the wonderful team at Water Mill House Care Home that looked after dad in his final months with such care, tenderness, dedication and love.  Dad thought the world of everyone there and always, no matter what, would give his little cheeky smile and say thank you.

It is time for you to rest now dad, out of pain and hopefully having a nice gin & tonic with mum and all your other relatives and friends that will be waiting for you with open arms.

We will of course be having a toast in your memory later, no we didn’t forget to order the Timothy Taylors!

We will miss you always but you will forever be in all our hearts.

            The past is history
            The future is a mystery
            This moment is a gift
            Which is why it is called the present

Thank you, from all of us, for all our beautiful memories that you made so special.  Sleep tight.

She died peacefully at home on 19th July 2025. She was made an Hon OF on 26 March 2011.  She was appointed as Governor of the College in 1996 and retired as a Governor in 2015.  She was the wife of the late Jeremy, adored mother of Henrietta, Charles and Nicholas and much loved grandmother of Freddie, Archie, Mary, Alistair, Joshua, Johnny, Thomas and Arthur.

She was awarded the MBE in the Queens Birthday Honours List in 2010 for “For voluntary service to the British Red Cross Society”.

There will be a private funeral followed by a Service of Thanksgiving at Chelsea Old Church, London SW3 5LT on Tuesday 16th September at 2.30 p.m.

Mike Vipond (Hon OF) died on 25 July 2025, in Ipswich Hospital. He and his wife Ann were currently resident at Foxearth Care Home, Saxtead, Suffolk. He was made an Hon OF on 30 March 1991.

During his long years of service at Brandeston Hall, Framlingham College Prep School, from the mid-1970’s through to the late 1990’s, Mike was Head of Wolsey (Green) House and undertook multiple responsibilities that, at one time or another, included Director of Studies, Head of Boarding and Drama and a spell coaching a very successful 1^st Rugby XV.

He was also an ordained Deacon in the Catholic Church and had been “running” St Clares, Framlingham, for many years. He is also a published poet. More recently, he was a key member of Soul Food and ran the Framlingham Food Bank.  In his retirement he and his wife Ann, had continued to reside in Framlingham where they were very much part of the local community. Our sincere condolences are extended to Ann and O.F. sons, Andrew and Dominic.

The funeral rites will be at Saint Clare’s Church, Framlingham.  The Reception of body will be on Sunday, 10th August at 5.00 p.m.  Requiem Mass followed by burial will be on Monday, 11th August at 11.00 a.m.

Following the death of this brother Gordon Gibbons (R66-71) we have realised that his brother Ian died back in 2015.  He passed away suddenly whilst on holiday in Mexico.  He left a wife Jennifer, son Tony and grandchildren.

His daughter Nicola got in touch to say that her father David Stanley Twite (R50-57) had died on 30 March 2025 at the age of 85.  His funeral was held on 1 May 2025 at 1pm at The West Suffolk Crematorium, St Edmund’s Chapel Risby, Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP28 6RR.

She has sent the following tribute :

David Twite  27^th July 1939 – 30^th March 2025

Dad was born in 1939, in Aldeburgh, Suffolk. His father was a policeman, serving in the East Suffolk Constabulary, and the family home was the Police Station in Kelsale.

Dad was a child during the second world war and remembers this time and events, some of which he spoke of. The flying bomb that narrowly missed their house and walking across a fen to get to school, hearing the sirens sounding and jumping in a ditch just as a German bomber passed overhead and he was able to clearly see the tail gunner.

Dad moved a few times during childhood as his father was promoted, living in Lowestoft and then Framlingham. Whilst in Framlingham he passed his 11 plus and was eligible to go to Brandeston Hall, which at that time was a Direct Grant School. He started there in September 1950 – biking to and from school 5 miles each way 6 days a week, in all weather. He moved on to Framlingham college in 1953, attending as a day boy and was in Rendlesham House. He went on to join the sixth form in 1955 and in September 1956 was made a house prefect. This meant he had to return to school after supper at home to supervise prep for the boarders, his school day was 8.30am – 9.30pm. His sons Mark and Andrew later followed in his footsteps although attended as boarders.

At school Dad was involved in sports – rugby, football and cricket and was also a member of the CCF. During school holidays he worked as a labourer in the fields.  He left school on his 18^th birthday in 1957. His father wanted him to be a policeman but Dad wasn’t keen, so his father even tried to get his Chief Constable to persuade him – but to no avail. Instead, he went on to do an apprenticeship at GEC Coventry, training in telecommunications and was there 1957-1962.

It was whilst in Coventry he met our Mum – Pat.  In 1962 our parents were married and went to live in Bridge, Kent where they started their family, having me (Nicola) in 1966. They moved on to Chilwell, Nottingham, living there only a short time before emigrating to America. They decided to go by ship, taking the last voyage of the Queen Mary in September 1967.

In America Dad first worked in Galion, Ohio where Mark and Andrew were both born. Then in 1974 we moved to Anchorage, Alaska. In 1978, my parents made the decision to return home to England. We lived just outside Framlingham for 6 months with our grandmother before Dad got a job in Maidenhead and we moved to a village in Oxfordshire. Only a year later Dad started work overseas again, this time in Jordan. At this point Nicola and Mark went to boarding school in Suffolk, Nicola to All Hallows, Ditchingham, Mark to Framlingham College, Andrew later joined them attending Brandeston then Framlingham.

From Jordan his next job move was to Saudi Arabia and he also spent time working in Ghana. During his retirement travelling continued to be a theme with he and Mum making trips to Europe, Sri Lanka, Thailand, Singapore, Canada, America and many other places.

Dad had a keen interest in genealogy and researched the Twite family tree right back to the 1600’s. He also enjoyed gardening.

Sadly, Mum died unexpectedly in 2014.  Dad continued to keep busy in his village community of Garboldisham, going on rambles with the local walking groups, attending the Methodist chapel in the village, and joined the U3A helping with genealogy club and going to the gardening club.

In 2022 Dad finally took the big decision to move from the family home of over 40 years to a smaller flat in an independent living complex, Oxlip House, in Bury St Edmunds. It was a big adjustment for him, but he embraced his new home getting involved in activities on offer and going to the on-site restaurant for his meals every day, making new friends. Sadly, over the last few years his health had been failing with several hospital admissions, each one taking more of a toll on him. Just after Christmas he suffered a stroke and although he got back to his flat, he never really recovered and had his final hospital admission. He died on 30^th March, 2025 age 85.

We have been advised by Robert Craig (R63-70) that his good friend of nearly 60 years has died. Here is what he said :

It is with sadness that I inform you of the passing of our contemporary Gordon Gibbons (R 66-71) on March 31^st of this year after a short illness. Gibbo was a good friend both at school and in adult life; we video called on a not infrequent basis, usually for a couple of hours at a time. We last met in Toronto in 2014 and we had planned to meet up again this year. Disappointingly, he called on March 17^th to inform me he’d been admitted to a hospice. I last spoke to him briefly on March 25^th and a few days later he was gone. During our conversation of the 17^th he was nothing but complimentary about the establishment, and I can tell you he was remarkably upbeat even in the face of his dire situation; no surprise to anyone who knew him.

Gibbo was an excellent sportsman. He represented Fram at Cricket (1^st XI wicket keeper and early order batsman), Rugby (1^st XV fly half), Tennis (doubles with me at Wimbledon schools and other tournaments), and he was awarded the Rendlesham square. After Fram he became a financial trader with the London branch of the Toronto Dominion bank until, and as a measure of his ability, in 1978 aged just 25 he was offered a transfer to the head office in Toronto to continue trading in Canada; an offer he accepted. Later Gibbo moved from Toronto to Tiny Township, a beach area on the Southern reaches of Georgian Bay, where he spent much of the Summers with his family on his rather large motor launch. He is survived by his wife of 44 years Lynn, their children Sasha and Christopher, and grandchildren Alexandria and Mackenzie (from Sasha and Steve).