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James Victor Waugh (K52-57) died on 13 September 2023, in the West Suffolk Hospital, Bury St Edmunds, following a prolonged illness bravely borne.  He was the husband of Sue, father of Andy and Will and grandfather to Oliver, Hattie, Charlie and Harry. He was cremated followed by a memorial service at St Peter’s Church, Fordham on Thursday 5th October 2023.

Brian Smallcombe (Hon OF) died on Sunday 8 October 2023. He had been suffering from liver cancer.

He was a Senior Master, Housemaster of Stradbroke/Ziegele House and Head of English. Brian was instrumental in attracting overseas students to Framlingham College and housing them in his family home.  He will be dearly missed by all that knew him.  He was father of Hannah (P81-93) and to Giles (Z80-90)

His memorial service took place on 2 November 2023 at Worlingworth Church at 2pm and afterwards at Worlingworth Community centre. A private family and close friends cremation took place first earlier in the day.  Family flowers only and Donations to be made to St Elizabeth Hospice Ipswich and British Heart Foundation.

PETER REGINALD CLAYTON (R67 -61) died on 18th August 2023. He always enjoyed keeping up with all the news about his old school.

Peter was married to Lynette Clayton for 53 years. They had three children, Joanne, Clare and Ruth, and two Grandsons, Flynn and Brennan. His brother,  Roger Clayton also attended Framlingham.

After leaving school Peter tried a number of jobs,and finished up working for Shell for some time. Eventually, having unfortunately being made redundant, he decided he would like to run a pub. Peter and Lynette were lucky enough to be given the tenancy of the beautiful Shepherd-Neame Plough Inn, in Brabourne Lees, and moved in in 1979.

Peter was heavily involved in village life. He was on the Parish Council for 35 years and Chairman for 9.  He had been a member of the Village Hall Committee, the Playing Field Association and the Village Fete Committee.  He operated the PA for the village fete for many years.  He organised a number of quizzes which were a lot of fun and raised sizeable amounts of money for lots of local causes. He also operated the sound system for the village pantos and The Pilgrims Hospice events.

He was a lifelong supporter and member of the RNLI and the Royal British Legion and really loved the Poppy Day collections. He was always so friendly and readily persuaded  people to part with their money.

In recent years Peter and a great friend of his put together a number of talks, set to music from various eras. These were very successful. The received bookings up to a year in advance for these talks which brought together interesting facts and music, alongside their sense of humour and fun. Peter loved doing these and spent hours going through his music collections to find the perfect music accompaniment to the words.

Peter loved his family enormously and liked nothing more than to be surrounded by members of that family.

KEITH CHARLES OAKLEY (K1945-50) died aged 89, on 9th September 2023 in St. Elizabeth Hospice, Ipswich.  He was husband to Pamela and father of Philip, Elizabeth, Roger and Jennifer.

This news was originally passed on by his daughter, Elizabeth, who had many happy memories of growing up on Lime Tree Farm, Badingham. The funeral was held on Thursday 5th October at St Peters Church Henley. Sadly Elizabeth, too, passed away in February 2024. The obituary is contributed by Keith’s son, Philip.

Keith attended Framlingham College between 1945 – 1950, doing General Studies.  After leaving the College he worked on a local farm before doing a farming apprenticeship near Boscastle in Cornwall.  He did his National Service in Germany with the Royal Army Service Corps between 1953-56.  He married Pamela Lay in 1961, having met her whilst in the Ipswich YMCA Amateur Operatic Society. They had four children. Always a hands-on, independent and practical man, he built his first home, a bungalow, in Ufford.   He later bought a farm in Badingham, breeding pigs. He also ran a caravan site. He involved himself with village life, from serving on the parish council to helping organise village events.  In 1978 he sold the farm and moved his family to Henley. He then worked for John Grose until retirement in 1999.  He loved the outdoors and being active: from gardening to caravan holidays across Europe, which often involved walking in the hills and mountains.

During retirement he enjoyed travel and visited many counties around the world, including New Zealand, Australia, India and Canada. In his later years he suffered kidney problems, but this did not stop him travelling, armed with his portable dialysis machine.  After catching Covid in 2021 his health and independence deteriorated until his kidneys finally failed him. His family will miss him.

Philip also sent us two pictures from those distant years, which may be of historical interest, particularly the picture of the Junior House, with DD Kittermaster, shortly before the move to Brandeston Hall.

David Edwin Hkio (R58-63) died on 10 August 2023 at Addenbrooke’s Hospital, Cambridgeshire.  We were notified by his wife Elizabeth.

Guy Stillingfleet Brooke-Smith (S41-44) – he passed away on 28 June 2023 aged 94 years, sourrounded by his 2 daughters and his daughter-in-law.  His death happened very suddenly but he had been battling for 2 months to get fit again after a chest infection and a bladder infection.

His youngest daughter Joanne Brooke-Smith sent the following “Dad was very proud to have been a scholar at Framlingham College, from 1941 to 1944. He was the only child out of 8 to be able to attend such a wonderful school. He left to attend the Mercantile Marine Service association School ship “Conway”  from 1944 to 1946 following his Father Louis and then brothers John and Francis foot step.  Then from 1946-1949 he was at sea service working for as a midshipman doing various duties for Ellerman and Bucknall Steam ship then also served 6 months as midshipman R.N.R in Malta in fleet Auxilliary and deputising as sub Lieutenant.

Then in 1949 in London he applied and was recruited as a trooper (Mounted policeman) with the British South African Police and was sent to Salisbury, Rhodesia where he was trained and was stationed at various district stations to carry out normal Police work. He left the police force in 1956 but still remained a Police reservist from 1956 to 1980 when he left the country.

After he left the force in 1956 he worked in the agriculture industry selling Agri equipment until 1980 where he immigrated to Canada with his family. Arriving in Toronto Canada working as a technical consultant for just under a year before finding another job on Vancouver Island BC Canada and moving the family across Canada where we lived on Vancouver Island in Nanaimo, Errington and Parksville. Due to tough economic conditions they decided to immigrate to South Africa in 1982 and in Johannesburg he retrained as a financial advisor for SA Perm Bank where he had an outstanding service record with his clients. He retired in 1990 and did an Realty Estate course and some other private work from home before they moved to their home in Hoekwil, Wilderness Western Cape 15km from George where they spent many happy years in retirement.

Margaret his wife in 2009 was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease and the eldest son offered them the cottage on his farm as life was becoming difficult for him looking after and running the property so in March 2013 they moved up to Limpopo to live on Andrew’s farm but in the meantime Andrew had been offered a job in the Philippine’s farming pineapples which he accepted. Guys wife past in 2016 and he survived her for 7 years, keeping himself very busy on the property cutting grass and maintenance. He had all his children visiting him from time to time and I the youngest Joanne was working on game reserves so I returned every 6 weeks for 2 week break before giving up work at the end of February 2022 to come and help clean, cook, garden and eventually when he required help himself but it was only in the last few weeks he required the most help.

My father was a good father and man and had a full and varied life and I feel privileged to have had this extra time with him and he will be sorely missed.”

Christopher Eamonn Core (S73-78) – he passed away w/c 26 June 2023 aged 51 years. His daughter (Zoe M08-11) attended the College as well. His son Tom went to Uppingham.

Gary Duce (K71-79) provided the following biography :  He studied geology and worked in the oil industry for many years on oil exploration visiting many interesting countries. On retiring from that work, he opened a model shop in Colchester as he was a very good model maker and had many dioramas for himself and made to order for others. Then in later life his eyesight deteriorated due to his Diabetes so he could not drive but helped out at the local Air Cadet Group in Braintree along with his faithful companion Baxter his dog. He joined the OF Lodge in January 1993, was our Master in 2000 and again in 2011, he obtained provincial rank in first in 2007 then promotions in 2015 and in 2022 to the rank of Past Provincial Sword Bearer. Chris always helped out when he could and was inspiring to some of our newer members. He will be sorely missed.

Andrew Graham Dean (G85-90) – Andy passed away w/c 19 June 2023 aged 51 years. The funeral will be held at Colchester Crematorium on Monday 3rd July 2023 at 1:15 PM.

John David Ingate (R53-58) – he passed away 17 June 2023 aged 80 years. The funeral service is on Saturday 1st July at St Margaret of Antioch Church, Linstead Parva, Halesworth at 11am. Family flowers only please or donations to Halesworth Volunteer Centre.